All these years later and I still get emotional when talking about the adoption of my son, Anthony Mutabazi.. About 8 years ago, I got a phone call regarding a little boy who needed to be watched over the weekend. I was hesitant, it was my early years of fostering and I was learning how to get over my fear of attachment but then I quickly said yes. I find out he was abandoned at the hospital by his previous adoptive parents.. it was heart wrenching to see the pain he was going through. The first day he came to me.. we instantly had a father/ son connection. • • #nowiamknown #dadlife #singledad #adoption #fyp #familylove #rescue #parents #mystory
In honor of National Foster Care Month, I decided to share a bit more about my story. What I journeyed through and how I was blessed to find my dad. My story proves that fostering DOES save lives! • • #mystory #parenthood #awareness #fostercare #family #dadandson #rescued #fyp #viral #nowiamknown #singledad
8 years ago, I set out to foster just one child and thought l'd be done in 6 months. Fast forward—l've adopted 3 and am fostering 3 more! Life has a way of rewriting our plans in the most beautiful ways. ❤️ #dadlife #fostercare #bigfamily #singledad #fyp #trending #parentsoftiktok #adoption #fosterparent
And it's all thanks to the amazing moms out there for teaching me with their tutorials or with advice ❤️ • • #dadlife #singledad #dadlove #trending #fyp #biggestflex #daughter #hairstyles #family #dadsoftiktok
How do I do my white daughter's hair as a single black dad? Surprisingly, I get a lot of negative comments indicating I do not know how to take care of my white children. That is false, everyday l'm learning new ways to embrace my white children's culture whether it comes to hair, certain foods and much more. As a village, let's learn how to uplift one and another instead of spreading hate. • • #blackdad #daughters #fyp #parentsoftiktok #singledad #hairstyle #mixedfamily
At 50, I never planned that I would have my pretty little baby 🥰 • • #dadlife #singledad #fosterdad #trending #viral #dadlove #toddler #girldad #Love #prettylittlebaby #fyp
Can you tell Isabella was excited to do this? 😂Listen, I love all my kids equally!❤️ #dadlife #singledad #daughters #daddysgirl #fyp #relatable #middlechild #Siblings
He crossed the line once he stole my @Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams! 😂🍦 • • #dadlife #singledad #familylove #relatable #trending #fyp #sons #parentsoftiktok #funny
Preparing for our foster placement! 🏡❤️ Tonight, we prepare. Not just a room, not just a bed, but a space in our hearts for a child who may be feeling lost, scared, or uncertain about what comes next. I don't know his full story yet. I don't know how long he'll stay. But I do know one thing: when he walks through that door, he won't be alone. ❤️ #singledad #fostercare #fosterparent #dadlife #educational #fyp #fostercarejourney #parentsoftiktok #nowiamknown
The reality of a Foster Care/Adoptive Family… Today, I got the call from a social worker about an emergency foster placement, and as always, my kids were the first to know. When I sat my kids down to tell them a social worker called about an emergency placement, their first reaction was curiosity. They had so many questions-How old are they? What do they like? When are they coming?—but underneath it all was something deeper: love. They know what it feels like to be the 'new kid' They know the mix of emotions-fear, uncertainty, hope. And that's why their hearts are always open, ready to make someone feel at home, no matter how long they stay. Foster care isn't easy. It's unpredictable, emotional, and sometimes heartbreaking. But moments like this remind me why I do it. #singledad #dadlife #educational #awareness #fyp #fosterdad #fostercare #fostercarejourney #nowiamknown #parentsoftiktok
I can't believe my little boy is 19 now. Where did the time go? 💔 Currently very emotional writing this because I remember the night Anthony first came to me. I told him he can call me Mister Peter and the first thing he asked was "can I call you dad?" From there, we connected instantly. No words can describe how l've been so proud of him. So happy and supportive of him. How great he's been with the kids especially the foster placements we get. I love you so much son. • • #nowiamknown #dadlife #dadandson #adoption #birthday #singledad #dadlove #family
Our dad might be the coolest but he comes with rules! 🫣 • • #dadlife #singledad #relatable #funny #fyp #blackdad #familylove #jokes #parents #nowiamknown
Earlier this year, my son and I attended my youngest brother's wedding in Uganda. It was a blessing for him to finally meet my family in Africa and a joy for us to do the things I did growing up. It was a joy to show him where I grew up and my culture. Everyone was so happy to finally meet him and of course, he melted their hearts He fitted in so quick, I was shocked! That's not really common in African culture. It was a joy to have him by my side but here's the most important question.... Who rocks it better in a suit? ❤️ #singledad #dadlife #blackdad #uganda #familylove #dadandson #fyp #trending #parents
I get way too many comments like these.. Foster care is not where I can go in a room and pick out the child that I like to foster. I have fostered multiple kids of color, they just get lucky enough to reunite with their family. Please ask before assuming. Educating about foster care is my passion. ❤️ • • #dadlife #fosterdad #nowiamknown #adoption #awareness #trending #fyp #blackdad #fostercare